The 5 Love Needs of Men and Women. Gary and Barbara Rosberg, a dynamic husband-and-wife team, discuss groundbreaking new research on men’s and women’s unique needs. Gary speaks with women and Barbara speaks with men about the top five love needs of men and women in this popular book (over 15,000 copies sold in hardcover). The reader will gain an understanding of how truly unique men and women are. Couples are inspired to new heights of sacrificial, Christlike love by the Rosbergs’ candor, vulnerability, and practical suggestions.